People-Pleasing Millennials Navigating Non-monogamy

Online Therapy in FL, SC, VT

Polyamorous, ENM, and Open Relationship counseling in Florida, Vermont, and South Carolina

You want to:

  • open your relationship with ease,

  • navigate jealousy and insecurity with love and care,

  • or see if non-monogamy is right for you.

When you first started exploring non-monogamy in your relationship you:

  • Never realized how loud your inner critic was.

    And it highlights every insecurity.

  • Opened up because you thought it would spice up your sex life.

    Or bring you and your partner closer together, or finally make your partner happy.

  • Were nervous and hesitant to move forward with the idea.

    But you thought, isn’t this what a good partner is supposed to do?

If you’re….

  • having second thoughts about opening up

  • feeling anxious about your relationship's security

  • or just unsure what to do with all this jealousy that's now making you physically sick

Online counseling for consensual non-monogamy can help

It may feel impossible now, but you can quiet that self-doubt.

You can focus on you and your relationship instead of making comparisons.

You can tame the jealousy monster that tests your marriage daily.

And I can help you get there.

If a typical Friday night after you’ve agreed to open your relationship looks like this, let’s chat:

The clock strikes 11:18 with your spouse nowhere to be found and your mind starts spiraling.

Did they kiss? I wonder if they’re a better kisser than me.

They’re probably having the time of their life, laughing and flirting with someone else.

It’s near midnight and you’ve driven yourself crazy replaying every worst case scenario of your partner leaving you behind forever.

Imagine if you could…

  • Kick your jealousy monster to the curb & focus on love so you can embrace an open relationship confidently

  • Calm your gut-wrenching jealousy and stop feeling like the problem in your relationship

  • Confidently kiss your sweetie goodbye for their date and feel excited for your “me time” now that you finally get to catch up on The Good Place

You know in your gut that you could make non-monogomy work.

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Paige Bond, Therapist

Hey I’m Paige (she/her)

I help people-pleasing millennials navigate non-monogamy so they can tame their jealousy and love with ease.

Learn more about me

You see, my clients are really interested in exploring non-monogamy.

They really like the idea of it and believe in it philosophically, but when the rubber hits the road and they start the process, jealousy emerges.

As a recovering people-pleaser myself, I can relate to not knowing how to balance the kind of relationship that I wanted, while also making sure my needs were met…

So I created the Jealousy to Joy Journey to help people pleasing millennials crack the code.

At the end of the day, you deserve an end to your sleepless nights and bouts of jealousy.

The 5 C’s to take you from Jealousy to Joy

  • Consideration

    Review what works and let go of what doesn’t.

  • Compassion

    It’s time to take care of you.

  • Comfort

    It’s time for gentle support and understanding.

  • Communication

    Feel closer to your partner by being vulnerable.

  • Compersion

    Feel joy for your sweetie on their own ENM journey.

After working with me, you’ll be able to…

  • Trust that your partner loves you, even when they are out with someone else

  • Kick ass at your day job and focus on being a boss babe as you open your relationship

  • Stop being a doormat and actually say no when you’re uncomfortable so you can break the habit of building up jealousy or resentment

  • Feel confident talking about non-monogamy with your partner openly and navigate compromises that work for the both of you

  • Get better sleep since your jealousy monster won’t be keeping you up at night anymore.

    • (No more mindless scrolling on tik tok self-help and over analyzing text conversations with your partner)

How to Get Started with an ENM Therapist

  • READ MY FAQ PAGE

    I got the deets to let you know up front what to expect from therapy with me.

    Check them out!

  • REQUEST FREE CONSULTATION

    If my FAQ gives you a good idea of who you wanna work with, let’s chat!

    SCHEDULE FREE CONSULTATION

  • ENJOY YOUR RELATIONSHIP

    Feel good about yourself and your relationships knowing that you are on the way to designing the exact relationship you want.

Want to see your relationship improve FASTER?
Try Intensive Marriage Therapy.

Frequently asked questions about poly friendly therapy and ENM help

  • Of course! I see a wide variety of relationship styles in my office and oftentimes find couples in particular needing support around the topic of non-monogamy as communicating about such a topic can be very sensitive.

    I actually HIGHLY encourage you to seek support as soon as possible to guide you on your non-monogamy journey as this can circumnavigate some unneeded miscommunication and hurt.

  • I sure can help! I’ve had the pleasure of working with the lesser-jealous partner in individual sessions to lend some guidance around how to support the more hurt/jealous partner.

  • The best results my clients get is when I can work with ALL partners involved so we more readily address any of the polycule’s concerns.

  • I actually did a blog post on just that! You can find that on my blog page titled: How to find a polyamory friendly therapist near you

  • Therapy for CNM relationships can help you navigate the unique complexities of non-monogamous relationships. Like other relationship therapy sessions, I will focus on helping you find better ways to communicate, notice your own patterns and cycles keeping you ”stuck,” and help you address issues related to jealousy, trust, boundaries, and intimacy.

    I also want to provide a supportive and non-judgmental space to so that you can receive affirming care for your CNM relationship and not necessarily have that as the focus of your sessions.

At the end of the day, you deserve an end to your sleepless nights and bouts of jealousy.

BEGIN ONLINE POLYAMORY THERAPY AND OPEN RELATIONSHIP COUNSELING

Are you ready to put your relationship on a better path and begin couples counseling? As a licensed marriage therapist and ENM Specialist, I want to help you navigate non-monogamy successfully! I understand starting the process can be daunting, but you can begin online counseling from FL, SC, or VT with three simple steps:

  1. Set a consultation with me today to see if we’re a good fit.

  2. Get to know the Couples Counseling of Central Florida team.

  3. Start to feel more connected and happy in your relationship.

OTHER MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES OFFERED IN FL, SC, AND VT

Based near Windermere, Florida I offer relationship therapy for individuals, relationship anxiety relief treatment, couples therapy, and pre-marital counseling before marriage. To help you fit any of my services into your busy schedule, I offer online therapy to several states including Florida, South Carolina, and Vermont.